The same routine happened year after year like going to the market and preparing Raya food on the last day of the fasting month. Since my family was the one who often went back earlier than the others, I was the one who will do the cooking for the first Day of the Eid. Sometimes I also cooked for the second Day which I'd rather rest.
Some families would have the family members asking forgiveness and hugged each other. We didn't. To me, this act is done whenever we did mistakes and not wait for this Day to do it.
The next activity was visiting the graves of my husband's father, grandparents and relatives. Visiting the graves reminded me that I would also be there sooner or later and so I should prepare myself before meeting Him. "Takut.."